Moving on up!

[jeffreyab]

jeffreyab is now a paid member.

what should I do with this lofty status?

Also I am checking lavalife for other singles.

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[padhopper.livejournal.com]

Oh kewl, you can make surveys, and have extra icons now. That is what I liked about being a paid member.

As for Lavalife, did you know there are single people everywhere. Just open your eyes.

[jeffreyab.livejournal.com]

There are lots of single people in Sarnia, the problem is that most of them are under the age of thirty or they smoke like chimneys which for health reasons is a deal breaker for me.

[cohen7.livejournal.com]

deal breaker - that's dr. phil talk :) haha.

[renniekins.livejournal.com]

Polls are always fun!

[jeffreyab.livejournal.com]

What suggestions do you have for my first poll topic?

[fairydarkfire.livejournal.com]

I have found with the online dating sites is pretty much the same as real life. The ones you are interested in are never interested in you and the ones who like you are not the ones you are interested in.

Good luck with whichever you choose.

There is one called Cupids Junction. The thing I like about them is that they send you a daily list of people in your area who fit your profile.

[jeffreyab.livejournal.com]

I like lavalife because its pay as you go not pay every month whether you use it or not.

Sarnia is not like a big city its actually hard to make contact with people unless you are already part of their group.

[fairydarkfire.livejournal.com]

They will include whichever boundaries you have listed. You chose the radius that is covered in your search. Mine have included men from Oshawa to Montreal to North Bay to Northern New York. I just pick and chose which ones I want to look into.

On a typical day I could have 2 men from Montreal, 1 from Oshawa, 1 from Kingston and maybe 2 from Ottawa. I only respond to those I am interested in.

You are right though in that it is a monthly thing. Since I seldom have any one I am interested in or that does not have a mention that they are looking for thin women, it has not been an issue and I have not paid any money yet.

Good luck to you

[jeffreyab.livejournal.com]

I have to admit the rules are different for women.

Its easier to put up an ad and wait, we males have to send out invitations.

[fairydarkfire.livejournal.com]

Sorry I guess I explained it wrong. Those are not personal invites. They are a list of the men in my chosen area.
I have to send a message if I am interested and often do not get a reply.